Since class has started

since class has started i have gone on a crusade to tell everyone about making a will. When my mother died she did not have a will, she had nothing prepared. It is very ovewhelming to care of the affairs of the recently deceed. I took charge of it because my sisters didnt want to but also because my neeed to control. But i have to say that at times i would just shut down because there is so much that needs to be done when closing down an estate its almost been 6 months and i am still working on getting things in order. i spend countless hours calling and sending and organizing my mother life just to prepair for her death notifications, it has also cost me money, which i do not care about the money just thank god that i like to save my money or else we would have more problems. At one point i was angry at my mom for leaving me with all of her mess. So all that to say no matter what age you are, get a will, get money for your services what ever they may be, have a list or some sort or organizational plan in place so to not add stress to you family and loved ones.